What it means to be of service to a Femdom

So many boys in the Femdom scene ask to be of service, yet very few seem understand what this actually means. Now I know many of you who seek domination services seem to think this means paying for a session or clips. While I do intend for those who seek to be of service to me to support my business, truly being of service goes beyond merely paying for a Femdom role play fantasy.

 

Being of selfless service to a Femdom is a way to challenge you to go outside your comfort zone and feel what it’s like to really release control to a strong and powerful woman. This often means putting your instant gratification on hold and actually paying attention to how you can best be of service outside of the realm of sexual fantasy you have projected onto her.

 

The goal is never about what you are going to get from a Femdom, but rather what it is you can give on her terms. You must strive to genuinely please her from a place of pure selflessness instead of giving only to get something from her.

 

Being of service means being attentive to a Domme’s wants and desires. The more you learn about a Domme and how to please her before approaching, the more successfully you will be of service for her.

 

How You Can Be Of  Service 

**These guidelines are how I prefer to be served personally.**

Always do your research on an individual Domme.

  • Follow her on social media, read her blogs, websites, etc and learn about her before approaching (you want to make sure she’s someone you actually want to serve, don’t you?)
  • Pay attention to any general requests she makes and eagerly offer to be of service (for me this paying for something I desire or just because I simply demand the cash)
  • Support her business in any way you can. The better your favorite Domme does, the happier she’ll be.. and the happier she is, the happier you’ll be!
  • Send regular tributes without being told to do it (there is nothing less sexy than a boy who needs me to hold their hand in order to give to me).
  • Realize that she is a human and not a 24/7 Femdom fantasy machine. Respect her time and always send a tribute before asking for ANYTHING.

 

Essentially, being of service means putting the Domme and her desires before your own and sacrificing your comfort in order to give to her. Before offering your service, you must ask yourself if you are really trying to please her or only yourself. A little self awareness can go a long way to cultivating a real connection with the Femdom of your dreams.

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