Femdom Therapy

Now let me be clear… I am not a therapist. In fact, I’ve never attended more than a year of college. However, if you know anything about me it’s that I highly value real world experience and self reflection.

I spent a large part of my younger years trying different therapies and medicines to “fix” what was supposedly wrong with me. None of it ever seemed to work. That is until I decided to strip myself of everything I thought I knew about myself, which is an ongoing process of understanding for me.

Now, in my line of work often times clients call me to talk about their kinks and desires and I have noticed a very common theme. Many men who call me feel ashamed of their desires and think they are some kind of freakish perv for even having them. And I’m not talking about the extremely out there and overly taboo stuff either (there are some fetishes out there and the way they are played out that I do consider borderline unhealthy, but that’s for another post.)

Especially in the realm of Femdom, I encounter many men who feel ashamed of their submissive and fetish fantasies as if that makes them less of a man. I often encounter gentlemen who would like to encorporate some Femdom or kinky elements into their personal relationships, yet fear being rejected by their significant other as a freak.

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As far as I am concerned it is completely normal to feel vulnerable around a strong and seductive woman. Think of all of the stories telling men to fear the seductive powers of women.

While, yes, a woman can be seductively evil at her worst (have you seen my name?) , so can a man be taken over by his deep primal desires and driven by lust.

Ignoring ones own darkness keeping it suppressed only makes it stronger. I know this from experience, as I’ve come face to face with dark parts of myself and integrate them into my whole being. In fact, I have learned to love bringing my shadows and deep dark parts to light to better understand myself.

We all have parts of ourselves we are afraid to allow others to see for fear of ridicule and social rejection. Sometimes it can be a relief to talk to someone who’s heard a lot of weird shit and can understand. Which is why I enjoy lending my ears and listening to the confessions and dark secrets of men…. For a price of course. My dark side is a conceited and entitled bitch after all 🙂

Do you have a secret or confession to share or in need of a little Femdom therapy? Call my Niteflirt confessions line here: 

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